How to Deal With Difficult People, Personality Conflicts and Difficult Employees

They’re here, there, everywhere. They upset managers and fellow

employees–even themselves. Who are “they?” If you haven’t already
guessed, “they” are the negative employees most people encounter in the
workforce at some point. If not carefully managed, they can suck the
energy out of your business and your personal life.

What is a negative employee? They are people with poisonous attitudes
and behavior patterns who negatively influence the people around them.
Negative workers come is various shapes and sizes. Sometimes they spread
rumors, gossip about coworkers, or bad mouth their superiors to their
faces and behind their backs. Basically, they are unhappy people who
resist the positive efforts of others.

Managers often hesitate to terminate them if they are productive or have
special skills/experience. Sometimes managers do not understand the
amount of stress a negative employee creates. It may be hard to accept a
negative employee who did a good job did so at the expense of the
productivity of others. Yet, ignoring or tolerating the problems and
atmosphere they create can easily and quickly result in dissatisfaction
among other employees.

What can a supervisor/manager do when faced with this unpleasant dilemma?

First, analyze the situation. How much does the person contribute to the
overall success of the office/department/business? How much do they
contribute to creating personality conflicts with other employees? How
does that unhappiness translate into reduced productivity and enthusiasm?
How much of your time as a manager are you using to control the
situation? What are the legal ramifications (if any) of discharging the
employee?

Second, plan a course of action. If you decide to try to salvage the
employee, consider these tips:

Discuss the situation with the employee. They will probably profess
ignorance of any problems, acknowledge the situation but blame the
problems on others, or become defiant and try to play mind games with
you. The employee may also voice his or her own complaints.

Evaluate the employee’s position. Even a person with a negative attitude
can have a legitimate complaint. Evaluate not only the employee’s
response to your remarks but whether the employee has legitimate concerns
you need to consider. If the complaint is the basis of the person’s
negative attitude/behavior, resolving it should result in a more positive
situation. Often, however, the complaint is either a smoke screen for
the employee’s behavior or has resulted from the person’s own negativity.

Focus on a behavior you want changed, not an attitude. Accept the
reality you may not be able to remake the person into an ideal employee,
even if you are a great manager. However, you can specify an action or
goal for the employee, and then follow through on the employee’s
progress. Once you see improvement, focus on another area. Always, of
course, acknowledge the employee’s efforts.

Use personality profiles and assessments. Many times, personality
conflicts are the result of misunderstandings that build up over time.
Each individual has a different personality style and frequently,
different personality styles clash with others. A team building session
can help co-workers understand and appreciate each other in a new way.
Packaged along with a personality profile or an individual behavior
assessment, it can be a powerful tool in reducing conflict and improving
communication between workers.

Consider assignments that will isolate the person from other employees
and limit contact. Most work situations require cooperation and teamwork
that make this technique unworkable, but it may be feasible in some
cases. You may even encounter an employee who prefers isolation and is
less negative when working alone. Unfortunately, negative employees
often seek out fellow workers–either to complain about their
job/boss/life in general, or to blame other employees as the source of
their unhappiness.

Set a limit and stick with it. Managers have adopted the “three strikes
and you’re out” rule. Make the employee aware of the limits, tell them
when they “strike” and remind them when they have only one “strike” left.

Third, terminate the employee. If all else fails and the negative
employee ignores your warnings and refuses to cooperate, it is time to
consider termination. Once you decide this is the proper course, take
action. Otherwise, you risk losing the respect and confidence from your
employees. Before termination, discuss the situation with a human
resource professional and seek legal counsel accordingly.

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Worker Shortage Posts

Google News Alert for: worker shortage

US tech sector eyes immigration bill revival, cites worker shortage
Channel News Asia – Singapore
WASHINGTON : US high-tech industry leaders say they will maintain a fight in Congress to address what they claim is a critical shortage of skilled workers, …
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Worker shortage felt throughout British Columbia
Journal of Commerce – Burnaby,BC,Canada
Labour shortages are a major factor influencing business decisions in many industries throughout central and northern British Columbia. …
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Labour shortage hits Marlborough winegrowers
Stuff.co.nz – Wellington,New Zealand
The high seasonal-worker turnover was because some came to the end of their work permits and some found the physical work too hard. …
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CUBA: Women Combating Shortage of Decent Housing
Inter Press Service (subscription) – Rome,Italy
Official figures reflect a housing shortage of 500000 units in this Caribbean island nation of 11.2 million. But 15 percent of urban dwellings and 38 …
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Economist: Worker shortage would imperil state tourism
Rocky Mountain News – Denver,CO,USA
By Joanne Kelley, Rocky Mountain News Economist Tucker Hart Adams cautioned that a failure to provide businesses with a way to employ more legal guest …
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Skills shortage reaching critical stage
New Zealand Herald – New Zealand
That concern, while still high, seemed to have stabilised at the same time as the skilled worker shortage escalated, he said. Despite that, New Zealand was …
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Alarm Bells Ringing Over Skills Shortage — Survey
Scoop.co.nz – New Zealand
But the concern, while still high, seems to have stabilised at the same time as the skilled worker shortage has escalated.” New Zealand was still in the top …
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Worker shortage takes toll on crops
Seattle Times – United States
By Tri-City Herald KENNEWICK — A labor shortage that hurt Washington asparagus growers will likely continue as the agriculture industry moves into its …
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Google Blogs Alert for: worker shortage

Why Employers Should Be Celebrating This 4th of July
By Carleen MacKay
The Bureau of Labor Statistics makes the case that there will be a worker shortage of nearly 10 million people by 2010 as mature workers continue to exit the workforce. Others have stated that recruiting talent from all generations is …
Spherion Career Blog – The Big Time – http://www.spherion.com/careerblog/

Immigration
The shortage points to the critical need for a legal guest-worker program and a secure ID system to verify those workers. Last fall, a San Luis Valley spinach grower offered $400 a day to help harvest his crop and got no takers, …
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Out of Africa
By khowley@reason.com (Kerry Howley)
proposed a simple solution to the US nursing shortage: lift the cap on nursing visas. The proposal fizzled, but not before critics charged that such a policy would be cruel and irresponsible. A news story in The New York Times asserted …
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Leadership Development: Building Trust

Building Trust
Key Ingredient for Successful Leadership

The head of ElectroScientific once said, “Trust is the grease that keeps
an organization going.” Trust is a key factor needed for effective
leadership.

What if you woke up one morning to find your hard-earned retirement
savings just went up in smoke-worthless. The Enron fiasco had a greater
impact than most people realize. Because of Enron, managers and
executives now face greater scrutiny and have a harder time proving their
trustworthiness.

This fact is highlighted in a survey conducted by Chart Your Course
International.

Continued on website:
http://www.chartcourse.com/article-leaders-trust.html

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Employee Retention Tips Designed to Reduce Employee Turnover

Here are some ideas and tips to help reduce employee turnover

Keep Your Promise List

Employees often gripe that companies do not keep their promises. For
example, who has been promised a promotion, education, or a new
assignment? Keep a list of these promises and make sure they are
fulfilled or at the very least keep the person posted on their status.

Get Out of Work Free Card

A Perkins franchise in Minneapolis stages contests for servers and
kitchen crew and provides them a get-out-of-work-free card. The
restaurant employee chooses any manager they want to work one of their
scheduled shifts. It is done in a good-natured, fun way. The results
generated build better camaraderie and help managers understand the
challenges of each position through this unique “Walk a Mile in My Shoes”
incentive.

Excerpted from “401 Proven Ways to Retain Your Best Employees”
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Comments about Generation X, Y and Baby Boomer Generation

"I find that several of my bosses (esp. other woman) have ultimately
found me a threat. And sometimes the better I performed or the more
earnest I seemed to "be part" of the team, the faster I earned my way to
the unemployment line."

I could not agree more. I was taught that you do your best and make your
contribution to improve the effectiveness of the organization you work
for. When I work with other people of my generation (Gen X) this is what
we do, we look for the best ideas and implement them. When I work for a
Baby Boomer, talent, skill, and dedication are a threat. I've actually
been confronted about coming in extra hours to get a project done. Raise
a new, better way of doing things with a baby boomer and all you get is
resistence.

And as for women in the workplace, I have only ever had one male boss and
I can tell you women treat women subordinates worse than I've ever seen
any boss treat anyone else. Most of the women I work for won't work for
another woman and with good reason.

Let's face it, the baby boomers were coddled by the world war II
generation, who didn't want to see them go through the hardship they went
through. They expect an easy path and all for them, if you have an idea
or are talented, rather than embrace this as a virtue or something to
support for the greater good of the organization, they're the first to go
at you like snakes.

"Many Gen Xers resent the Baby Boomers and feel they are the single most
destructive generation EVER to have thrived in America, and that they
have, Locust-like, destroyed everything they personally didn't like or,
worse, threw a monkey wrench into the works just to see if they could, or
for the challenge."

Yeah, total spoiled bast@rds. "The Worst Generation" if there ever was
one.

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Employee Retention Seminar

Growing Worker Shortages Becoming a Crisis
Seminar Addresses Strategies for Employee Retention

Atlanta, GA (June 7, 2007) The high employee turnover rate and the
growing demand for skilled workers is creating a crisis for the majority
of employers across the United States. It is getting more difficult to
find and keep talented workers. As a result, organizations placing more
effort in creating better places to work to retain their employees.
Strategies enabling you to retain your best and brightest are available
at the upcoming workshop, Here Today, Here Tomorrow, being held in
Atlanta on July 26. The one-day seminar sponsored by Chart Your Course
International and People Skills International will be held at the World
Trade Center Club at 303 Peachtree Street from 8:30 a.m. to 4:30 p.m.

Greg Smith, president of Chart Your Course International and author of
Here Today, Here Tomorrow, says that "Unemployment is the lowest it has
been since 2000 and estimates show 48 to 65 percent of the workforce is
dissatisfied with their current employment situation and could leave for
better positions as the economic situation continues to improve. To keep
their workforce intact, employers need solid strategies for employee
retention."

The Society of Human Resource Management (SHRM) and the Wall Street
Journal website recently completed the Job Recovery Survey. The key
findings revealed 64 percent of employees said they were extremely likely
to begin or increase the intensity of their job search. An additional 19
percent said they were somewhat likely to increase their search.

"U.S. businesses spend over $200 billion annually recruiting and
replacing employees," says Karla Brandau, president of People Skills
International and authority in Culture Integrity. "It would make sense
for companies to reduce the money spent replacing employees by spending
the money to retain employees, thus reducing training time for new
employees. When good employees are retained, productivity and innovation
increase as you climb the ladder together rather than putting
productivity on hold as you step down a rung or two to get new employees
up to speed. By retaining your best and brightest, you will reduce
expenses while you make faster progress toward increased market share and
organizational effectiveness."

Greg Smith is the CEO and founder of Chart Your Course International, a
performance management consulting firm located in Atlanta, GA. Smith has
provided advice to many of the "Top 100 Best Places to Work" and served
as an advisor to the U.S. Army Surgeon General. His message is
international as he has traveled to and worked with businesses in 22
countries. He is a former Examiner for the Malcolm Baldrige National
Quality Award, which is awarded each year by the President of the United
States. He also was selected by the Human Resource Executive Magazine as
one of the nation's "Top-Ten Rising Stars" in Human Resource Management.
He has authored eight books including 401 Proven Ways to Retain Your Best
Employees. His book is available on http://www.401ProvenWays.com and
www.Amazon.com

Get free articles on employee retention and learn more about the coming
seminar at

http://www.chartcourse.com/Employee-Retention-Workshop.html.
Questions can be answered by calling Chart Your Course International at
770-860-9464.

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Comments about Generation X and Baby Boomers

Boomers had it the best in this country and the fact is they lost touch
with the difficulty of struggle. Most of them inherited land, money and
or businesses from there parents and did not have to struggle the way
their parents did. they have no respect for their children and treat them
as if they don't count. Most baby boomer employers fores workers into
unpaid overtime or expenses and will not compensate. when I started in
the work for back in 1989 I work for the parents of baby boomers and it
was a grate work environment. the boss treated the workers with respect.
Now that the baby boomers have taken over its a mess. Employers are
mistreating, harassing, abusing ,and over working their employees. This
is creating a more then hostel environment in the workforce. Theirs other
issues as well. In all its a mess.

From Greg Smith, President, Chart Your Course International

More information provided at www.chartcourse.com and
www.highretention.com

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